Honestly you have to seek, or yearn for Jesus. He doesn't chase us down, rather we should seek after Him. It is a relationship, you can be as close to Jesus as you choose to be. Jesus said seek and you shall find. (Mathew 7:7)
His Words cannot come back void, if you are comfortable in your one day a week situation God allows that, but if you Seek Him, He grows the fruits of Spirit in you. Those fruits touch everyone around you. That comes from a personal relationship.
Billy Graham wasn't pushi...  more